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For a couple to write their own vows allows for their wedding to be more special, because these are not words that were written for you by someone else to repeat. These are words that come from your heart, promises that you will want each other to understand and respect. So take some time out and be prepared to get in touch with your true feelings. The only problem is where will you begin? This guide will help you through the process while still allowing you to be true to yourself and what you really want to say.

-Once you have decided to write personal and original vows to each other, find a place where you feel peaceful and can get deep into your thoughts. Think about how you want your life to be with your partner, through all the good times and bad times, disagreements, sickness and even life and in death.

-Seek out advice and wisdom from anyone you feel in sync with their values on the subjects of life, relationships and love. Everyone has experienced something that someone else can learn from. Be sure to check with your religious leader for guidance on what may be allowed if you wish to alter the vows or any tradition.

-You should think to yourself and write down every single thing that is the reason you love your partner. Make a list and narrow down the top four to five things and include them in your vows. Try to pick out things that are unique to them that are not generic traits that could be found in just anybody. Your observation in the finer points that make your partner unique will make it more special.

-Using poetic and romantic language in your vows is something you may wish to try. If you are not a creative writer then you can try looking up some poetry to see if anything speaks to you that you feel reflects how you may honestly feel. If you do find anything, then you can take some of that language and use it as a guide to help you.

-Find a person whom you feel you have respect for their opinion and will be truthful with you about your vows. See if they have any suggestions on what may sound better or be more clear. If it’s too long and or even if they tell you that you should start over.

-Keep it short and sweet, around two paragraphs should be enough as to not over do it.

-Remembering your vows is a suggestion that could really add a magical moment to your ceremony that money can’t buy. To be able to say your feelings and make your promises aloud from the heart looking into your spouse’s eyes and not recite it from a note in your hand is priceless. So practice and memorize them if you can. Bring a cheat sheet if you must, but use only incase of emergency.

-Finally write them down on a special card or paper so that they will always be able to cherish your words in the future.

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The end of a relationship can be a traumatic time, particularly if it is unexpected. For those who are being broken up with, it is often common to want to get back with your ex lover.

The end of your relationship is an indication that something was not going right, and the partner who decided to leave was not having the requirements met. In order to begin a new relationship with your ex lover, you may be required to make changes or sacrifices to ensure it will not end on the same terms.

Think about the changes you may have to make in order to allow a new relationship to function effectively and decide whether they will be sustainable.

If you believe you are capable of sustaining these changes, begin the process of getting back with your ex by contacting them. Contact can take place in any form possible, whether it is a phone call, text message, e-mail or any other form you are comfortable with. Allow the first contact to be simple and reasonably free of heavy emotions. You don’t want to scare them away before you’ve begun trying to get them back.

Slowly begin to build up contact and thus rapport with them.

When you have the opportunity to spend time with your ex, ensure you do so doing something that you used to enjoy participating in as a couple. This will aid in setting the mood and will show your ex what they are missing out on by not being in a relationship with you. It will also remind them of how good the relationship used to be, which will significantly increase the ease of the process of getting back into a relationship with them.

Women should avoid becoming clingy and emotional, as this will only serve to further scare your partner away.

Men should make an effort to listen to and genuinely respect the feelings and emotions of their female counterparts. This will prove to you ex girlfriend or wife that you will be able to fulfill all of her emotional requirements.

During the time you spend with your ex partner, be sure to show them the efforts you have put into changing any factors that may have affected your previous relationship. Your ex will appreciate any efforts you have made to change these factors.

If you feel that any possible changes will not be sustainable, it is probably best to refrain from attempting to get back with your ex, as any new relationship will be doomed to follow the path of the first.

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So you want to know how to make him fall in love with you. There are some pitfalls to this. First, it may backfire and you hurt yourself instead. Secondly, he may sense your desperation and avoid you. But if you do it right like this article tells you, you may just make it.

How to make him fall in love with you? You had better not start from here, or else you could bump into the pitfalls mentioned above. You could be going too fast that there never was a chance of his ever seeing you for who you really are, and then you would miss the chance of actually being a couple altogether. You sure appreciate him, but he has yet to do that of you. So don’t start on a wrong footing. Better be slow but sure.

You could do it this way:

1. Find out his interests and hang-outs

Now that you are reading how to make him fall in love, you want to make him fall in love with you, not force him to fall in love with you, so apply good common sense. And what can be more sensible than knowing a little more about this guy first? Find out what interests him and where he regularly hangs out. It would be good if you can get specific, not generic. The former differentiates him from the rest of the pack. After all, you like him, not the whole pack, don’t you?

2. Find something in common between the two of you

You already know yourself, or your interests. So once you know something about your guy, you could find out what both of you have in common. This could be the areas where you can take advantage of in terms of bonding with him, as a friend at first.

You gradually progress from friends to good friends and then to being a couple. Even if the entire process is fast, it is still a process you ought to go through, less you run into disappointment later on.

3. Send out subtle hints

When you are at a comfortable stage with him, it is time you send out subtle signals, if he has not yet responded the way you expected him to. You could show that you care in situations that warrant it. If you look for opportunities, you are sure to find them. A little here and a little there show no desperation on your part, but may be enough to let him know.

How fast the entire process takes is up to you or rather, your personality. You may want to suit him also, to a certain extent. Do you think he is fast or not? If you are both aggressive types, it could take very little time. But if you are both people who take the time, simply enjoy the ride. There only is a little distress if you are both not the same in this respect. Then again, if he is the slow one and you are the aggressive one, you may be the one holding the cards!

Find out as specifically you can about this guy so that you will know what you both have in common. Then allow your friendship to progress smoothly, whether fast or slow. In accordance with his response, send out subtle signals at appropriate times. That is how to make him fall in love with you!

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You know the guy and you are pretty confident that he like you and you are starting to get close to him as well. But still he has not taken that huge leap and asked to go out.

Whilst you cannot force him to ask you to go out, there are certain things, which you can do, that will make him more interested in you and will ask you to go out. They are:

1. Let your gut think that he’s doing the hunting

Guys love the thrill of chasing, hunting is in their genes, it is certainly the male thing. Be a little secretive as well as hard to catch and your guy may flock like the bees to honey. It means having a sagacity of your self worth; guys hate women that are clingy.

Guys do not like boosting the ego of a woman; they love a genuine balanced person. Make your guy think he wants to take the initial move and start chasing.

2. Make the guy feel that he is Mr. Right

Stroke the ego of your guy, let your guy knew that you actually value them for what they are and as a person.

3. Laugh and enjoy his jokes

This is quite imperative that a guy thinks that he is funny in addition to witty, the guys are valued because of their sense of humor.

4. Never call him first

If a guy is actually interested in dating you, he will certainly call you in the initial week. The guy will contact you if he has to go out of the city and will be excited to meet you when he will coke back to town.

5. Never hang out with your friends in big groups

Few guys feels that reaching a girl in big groups is a bit intimidating. Hang in smaller groups this will make it simpler for the guy to contact or approach you.

6. You are interested in him but he is not paying attention

Guys are quite apprehensive and they want to get popular and feel liked. Do not pay attention for a while, do not get rude and do not get much harsh because you do not want to make a topic or an issue of this, just ignore him for some time.

It may poke him why you are not paying that attention which you used to give him and surely, after a while your guy will approach you.

7. Show your guy some signal

When you are talking, you actually need to show hi some signals that you want him to go out with him. The most feasible approach is to discuss about the things which a couple generally do such as going for movies, out for lunch or dinner and in addition do not forget to mention that you do not have anyone to go out with.

8. Do not appear to be too desperate to go out with him

Desperation is a very big turn off for guys. It is a sort of indication that a girl is quite clingy and that may not appeal your guy and he may start ignoring you. Rather appear yourself, show your true self and a friendly interest.

9. Ask your guy yourself

If you guy is not asking to go out, you take the pleasure and ask him to go out. Remain positive and do not force him to go out with you. Behave as if you are just asking for a casual date or spend some quality time, do no show him that you like him and thus want to go out with him so you can know him better. Be normal and informal.

Besides, also attempt in the conversation snippets regarding boyfriends otr girlfriends or relationships in order to identify that both of you are single and available.

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Women dress, walk, talk and adorn themselves in ways that they think will be attractive to the opposite sex. Throughout history women have subjected themselves to painful rituals in order to be considered sexy and desirable by men.

The ancient Japanese bound the feet of female children to keep them small. This sexy binding crippling the women so that they could not walk.

Various tattoos and markings have been used in Pacific Island and other cultures around the world to adorn the skin of the body.

Africans inserted stones in lips and earlobes, stretching them out of shape. In other African tribes, long thin necks were thought to be beautiful, so the women wore rings around their necks to stretch them (the more rings, the longer the neck and therefore the more desirable the woman).

In the U.S., women go on extreme diets to get thin; pierce lips, eyes, nostrils and nipples; or endure surgical procedures like breast enlargements, tummy tucks, Botox injections, face lifts and body waxing because they think men will find these physical modifications to be sexier.

Women will also roll leave their homes with their rear ends out and everything showing. They think this is sexy and the only way to get a man’s attention.

With the competition for men so fierce among women, just what is a girl to do? She wants to attract and keep a good man that finds her exciting. So just what DO men say is sexy?

What Do Guys Say is Sexy
One guy spent a month in Egypt where the women wore long black burkas, exposing nothing but their eyes to the public.

He reported “The eyes are the most powerful attraction that a woman has, but that’s mainly used in close-range encounters. Things like hair, clothes and body catch a man’s interest from far away. Eye color is not the most important thing. I think eye shape maybe. A man can drown in the right pair of eyes. The eyes are extremely sexy, and I left Egypt very hot and bothered and I’d seen nothing but EYES!”

One young guy wrote “a woman with a job and her OWN MONEY is the sexiest thing I can think of!” Seemed to get his blood boiling just to think about it.

“Women with gorgeous bodies and tiny little love handles is sexy.”

“A natural and warm smile is almost like a hug - it’s very welcoming. Fake or strained smiles don’t get it.”

“There’s nothing sexier than a black woman - it’s just the way they are. A nice smile, a pleasant speaking voice, and meat on da bone! I can’t stand no skinny women!”

“I like women that are about 20 lbs over the weight on those insurance charts. I even like a little cellulite on firm shapely thighs. I like my woman to LOOK LIKE A WOMAN, not a twig.” This letter came in from a Texan. I guess it’s true that they like everything bigger down there!

“A really nice scent on a woman circumvents all of that higher-level thinking and reaches men in a very visceral place. It shouldn’t be too strong or too subtle. A woman has to find the right perfume for her body chemistry.”

“A woman’s voice is very sexy to me.”

“All I can say is that these women walking around here all bony need to remember what dogs do to bones; they knaw on them and then bury them.”

“A sharp wit balanced with an elegant demeanor is very sexy.”

“A woman who feels sexy about herself, or who is sensual and confident is very sexy!”

Many men wrote and expressed a sentiment that is the direct opposite of the belief many women hold about their clothing - or lack thereof. Most men expressed the opposite sentiment: “Even though we like to LOOK, that doesn’t mean it stirs me in the place a woman wants me to be stirred which is my heart!”

Another young man held a similar viewpoint: “Understated vs. overstated is sexy…leave something to my imagination ladies. The possibility and the calculation is what men like.”

“I’m a blue-eyed blonde, but I find women with dark, dark skin that glows in the sunlight to be ridiculously sexy.”

Another dreadlocked, dashiki wearing brother complained that Black women need to stop applying what they see in the mainstream media to themselves in relation to beauty, fashion, body image and as the criteria to judge what is or is not sexy.

What Isn’t Sexy?
“Not sexy at all is someone who tries too hard to be sexy! Don’t wiggle around and be so obvious with yourself. I had a woman come stand in front of me and bend over to pick up a pack of cigarettes she dropped. It was just nasty. Makes a woman look bad when they do all that.”

“Eager to please, bringing attention to themselves, always wanting to do the right thing, or just plain doting is definitely not sexy!”

“Women with all them damn muscles. Hey, if I wanted to sleep with a hard body, I’d be gay! Women are supposed to be shapely, with softness and curves. I don’t want somebody with yokes like me!”

In summary, it seems the qualities guys value as sexy are:

Confidence
High self-esteem (a woman that values herself)
A winning smile
A smooth voice
Feminine curves that are toned and firm
Definitely not skinny
Intelligent with a witty sense of humor

Got it ladies? So put some clothes on and work on demonstrating the qualities above if you want guys to really find you sexy!

(c) 2008 Deborrah Cooper. Deborrah has authored dozens of relationship articles and advice columns on Ask HeartBeat!, which focuses on modern relationships for teens and adults. Her dating guide Sucka Free Love! provides street-smart, hilarious insight into the toughest issues facing singles today. Check out The Sucka Free Dating Radio Talk Show on Wednesday night at 7:00 pm PST.